There are few things in life more personal—or more symbolic—than an engagement ring. And while shopping for one can be exciting, nothing quite compares to having one custom-made, just for you (or your forever person). If you’ve ever thought, “I want something that no one else has,” then welcome to your dream come true.

At Ashley Schenkein Jewelry Design (ASJD), we specialize in crafting custom-designed engagement rings in Denver that are as unique as the love story behind them. From the first sketch to the final touch, every step of our custom process is handled with care, creativity, and the highest level of craftsmanship.

In this guide, we’re walking you through the entire journey—from that first “I think I’m ready” moment to the day you slide the ring on. Whether you’re designing solo for a surprise proposal or creating it together as a couple, we’ve got you.

 

Why Go Custom? Why Denver?

Sure, you could pop into a jewelry store and pick out something shiny from the case. But you’re not looking for just any ring—you want the ring. One that captures your partner’s personality and lifestyle, your relationship, and maybe even a family story or two.

Choosing custom engagement jewelry in Denver means working with a local expert who listens to your vision, brings it to life, and makes the process feel like a celebration. Bonus: supporting a local, woman-owned small business like ASJD means your love story supports our story, too.

Let’s dive into what the custom journey actually looks like.

 

Step 1: The Consultation – Let’s Talk Love + Style

Every custom engagement ring begins with a conversation—and probably a Pinterest board or two.

This first step is all about getting to know you and your vision. Do you love a sleek solitaire or something with vintage flair? Are we working with a family stone or sourcing something brand new? What’s your timeline, your budget, your lifestyle?

At ASJD, we begin with a complimentary consultation—either in person at our Denver studio or virtually. Think of it as a conversation, not a quiz—we’ll guide you through the process, asking the right questions to understand your style, preferences, and any must-haves. If you’re still figuring things out, no worries! This is just the starting point. We pride ourselves on creating a ring that’s not only beautiful but also practical for your lifestyle.

Pro tip: If you have any photos, sketches, or heirloom pieces to incorporate, bring them! The more we know about your dream ring, the better.

 

Step 2: The Design – Where Magic Meets CAD

Now comes the fun part: transforming your ideas into a visual design.

Using computer-aided design (CAD) software, we’ll create a digital rendering of your ring so you can see every detail before anything is made. Want to tweak the bandwidth or try a hidden halo? We can easily make adjustments.

Think of this step as your HGTV moment—but for your finger.

You’ll review the design with the experts at ASJD, provide feedback, and approve it only when it feels just right. No guesswork. No surprises. Just a perfect preview of what’s to come.

 

Step 3: The Stones – Diamonds, Sapphires, and Meaningful Gems

Next, it’s time to choose the center of attention: your stone.

We source ethical, conflict-free diamonds and gemstones that meet the highest standards. Looking for a classic round-cut diamond? We’ve got you. Want something more unique, like a Montana sapphire or salt-and-pepper diamond? We love those too and are well-versed in sourcing them.

We’ll guide you through everything from cut and clarity to carat and color. Whether you’re looking for sparkle, symbolism, or something sentimental, we’ll find the perfect stone to bring your design to life.

And yes—you can absolutely bring in a family stone for us to reset. Giving heirloom gems a fresh start in a modern setting is one of our favorite things.

 

Step 4: The Setting – Handmade in Denver with Love

Once the design is approved and the stone is selected, your ring is handcrafted by our trusted team of skilled artisans—right here in Denver.

This isn’t mass-produced. It’s a carefully made, heirloom-quality piece, built to last a lifetime (and then some), just for you. Every detail is checked for perfection, from prong security to polish. We keep you in the loop on timing, so you’re never left wondering.

Typical turnaround time? Around 4 to 6 weeks, though it can vary depending on complexity and season.

Think of it as the artisan slow fashion version of jewelry—custom, intentional, and made with love.

 

Step 5: The Reveal – That “It’s Perfect” Moment

Here’s where the magic hits differently. Whether you’re picking up the ring in person or receiving it in the mail, this moment is always unforgettable.

We’ve had clients cry (happy tears, promise), squeal with joy, and immediately start planning their proposal. We’ll walk you through care instructions and sizing just in case a small adjustment is needed.

And then? It’s proposal time, baby. 

Cue the champagne and the Instagram post.

 

Why Choose ASJD for Custom Engagement Jewelry in Denver?

You’ve got options when it comes to engagement rings in Denver, but here’s what makes ASJD a favorite for couples all over the country:

• One-on-one collaboration with your personal jewelry expert, who’s available via text, phone, email or in-person

• Truly custom work—nothing cookie-cutter, ever
  

• Heirloom-quality materials with ethical sourcing
  

• Local craftsmanship from a small team of master jewelers
  

• Transparent pricing and clear communication throughout
  

We’re not here to sell you a ring. We’re here to create your ring, together.

 

FAQs: What You’re Probably Wondering

Q: How long does the custom process take?
A: Typically 4–6 weeks from consultation to completion, depending on design complexity and stone sourcing. Need it faster? Let us know—we’ll see what we can do.

Q: What’s the average budget for a custom ring?
A: We work with a range of budgets, but most clients invest between $3,000 and $10,000. We’ll always be transparent about what’s possible within your range.

Q: Can I use a diamond or gemstone I already have?
A: Absolutely! We love incorporating heirloom stones into new settings. It adds extra meaning—and sustainability—to your ring.

Q: Is custom more expensive than buying retail?
A: Not necessarily. Because we work directly with you and eliminate the middleman, we can often create a custom piece at a comparable price to high-end retail, with far more personalization.

Q: Can you help me design the ring as a surprise for my partner?
A: 100%. We’ll help you design something they’ll swoon over—and even keep it under wraps until you’re ready to pop the question.

 

Ready to Start Your Custom Ring Journey?

Designing a custom engagement ring isn’t just about the final piece—it’s about the experience, the intention, and the joy along the way.

If you’re dreaming of custom designed engagement rings in Denver, we’re here to make that dream a reality. Whether you’re ready to schedule a consultation or still in the “maybe someday” stage, we’d love to chat.

✨ Book Your Free Consultation
✨ Or stop by our Denver studio and say hi!

Your love story is one of a kind—shouldn’t your ring be, too?